Standing in front of a
lot of people; giving a speech or showing any kind of performance, for some
people, some extra strengths are required since, as they presume, it is a
difficult thing to do. Rarely they feel brave instead of being nervous to be a
cynosure. Why this could happen? Lack of confidence is a major factor in why
this condition happens.
“Lack of confidence can
seriously impact your ability to put together a winning team and guide them to
achieving your company goals and impede your goals and lead to a deficit of
good habits necessary to lead a happy and healthy life.” (Tony
Robbins)
Then, the question you
may ask is how to deal with this kind of condition?
Before we discuss
further, it is required for us to know the meaning of the term ‘confidence’
itself. So, what is confidence? In general, you may relate this term to what
people feel or believe. To define this term, however, the definition is
probably not always the same. As Tony Robbins said,” Being confident is nothing more than a sense of power to believe in
yourself. It is the feeling of certainty that you can accomplish whatever you
set your mind to. Confidence comes from within, and you can find ways of being
more confident at any time.” According to this, confidence is not the thing
that naturally exists within your life, in fact, as Tony said ‘set your mind’,
this kind of power is the thing you need to build up.
The advantages, if you
constantly success in building up your self-confidence, of being the confidence
you are not only able to overcome your fear, however, a chance of being a success
will be involved in your life. Afterward, what can be done for building up
confidence? Chris W. Dunn, Founder, and CEO of Skill Incubator suggests ten
ways in building up self-confidence; visualize yourself as you want
to be, affirm yourself, do one thing that scares you every day, question your
inner critic, take the 100 days of rejection challenge, set yourself up to win,
help someone else, care for yourself, create personal boundaries and shift to
an equality mentality.
So many ways providing to
enhance self-confidence for which people can adopt. However, among the ways
offered, one thing is the most crucial to building up confidence is dependent
on the willingness as each individual is willing to change the way of thinking.
Regarding to this, self-belief has a prominent place to lead each individual
for being more confident and not doubting the self relating ability in doing
something.
“Confidence draws from a
powerful sense of self-belief. If you’ve been focused on negative thoughts for
much of your life, confidence is not going to come easily.” (Tony
Robbins)
References
https://www.entrepreneur.com/article/281874
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