Jaa Mee

Saat masih kuliah dulu, aku mencoba untuk tidak hanya focus pada bidang akademik saja tapi juga kegiatan diluar bidang akademik. Seperti mengikuti kegiatan kampus dan include di dalam sebuah organisasi. Kenapa? Dulu aku tidak berpikir jauh ingin mengasah skill. Aku hanya berpikir, aku tidak ingin menjadi mahasiswa ‘kupu-kupu’ (kuliah pulang). Wkwkwk …. Motivasil sekecil itulah yang mendorongku untuk selalu mau menjadi bagian dari kepanitiaan sebuah acara atau bahkan menjadi bagian dari sebuah organisasi. Awal mula, aku bingung mengatur jadwal antara kuliah, kegiatan kampus, kegiatan asrama (karena aku tinggal di asrama) dan bekerja. Gak kebayangkan gimana hecticnya? Aku ingat betul, tahun 2016 dan waktu itu aku masih disemester 3. Seseorang menawarkanku untuk bekerja disebuah koperasi. Tentu saja aku tidak langsung menerima tawaran tersebut. Aku memepertimbangkan tawaran tersebut terlebih dahulu. Hingga akhirnya, dengan penuh kesadaran akan adanya resiko yang akan aku dapat, aku me...

All of us have a mistake or some. We cannot deny that having mistakes is one of the things that sometimes cause us to feel regret all the time. It seems all we had been through  is just a shitty thing since we assume having mistakes is the worst thing. Every time you try to run away from all mistakes you did but end up with the tears full of regrets. Why this happened? It’s because you never find a peace in your heart. Is it because of you who can’t forget those mistakes or it’s just you who can’t forgive yourself? Every people in the world have and will do a mistake or even a lot. The more steps they take the more mistake they have. It seems living in the world is impossible to avoid a single mistake even you’ve already tried to be careful of what will you do.   Even when you are trying to run away or run as faster as you can, still, you will comply and deal with kind of mistakes. is mistake a permanent knot of our life? And why we should have one or more mistakes? Well, ...

One thing that cannot be avoided in our life is blaming our-self of what we did and what happened to us and still. Let’s forgive yourself! How? You just need to start to change the way you treat yourself. Try to make up your mind that no matter how hard you try to restrain all of the bad things you face, they will not completely disappear from your life. You just need to relax. Try to take a deep breath and start to think wisely. It’s not only you who have the bad days. Everyone has. Never think that you are the only one creature in the world who always needs to survive on the worst thing and sacrifice everything you have in order to prevent the bad things occur. All people on this earth have. You are not alone. You just do not know that there are a lot of people out there who find the worst thing than you ever have. Stay positive of what you had and will. Because all of the things you get today is given in vain. Each of them will raise you to be a better version of you. You may...

Standing in front of a lot of people; giving a speech or showing any kind of performance, for some people, some extra strengths are required since, as they presume, it is a difficult thing to do. Rarely they feel brave instead of being nervous to be a cynosure. Why this could happen? Lack of confidence is a major factor in why this condition happens. “Lack of confidence can seriously impact your ability to put together a winning team and guide them to achieving your company goals and impede your goals and lead to a deficit of good habits necessary to lead a happy and healthy life.” (Tony Robbins) Then, the question you may ask is how to deal with this kind of condition? Before we discuss further, it is required for us to know the meaning of the term ‘confidence’ itself. So, what is confidence? In general, you may relate this term to what people feel or believe. To define this term, however, the definition is probably not always the same. As Tony Robbins said,” Being confident i...

December is coming. How is it to be in the last month of the year? Are you feeling excited? Or are you regretting several things that happened in the past? Whatever it is, you will leave this 2019 soon. New year, for some people, has brought a new phase for every step they will through while for some it is just the way it is; nothing special they could find as they feel another way where the things had happened seems like a ghost trying to put them in the feeling of hurting, sad and desperate at the same time. Even several kinds of celebration, for these certain people, show nothing but fear. Is it weird? No, not at all! Feeling is something that unclear. To describe it well, it is not easy. Having the way you feel today, as you think it’s not normal, doesn’t mean you are different from others. God created a heart with a variety of feeling inside. You cannot judge what you have inside your heart. Instead of judging yourself badly, better for you to make up your mind. Because if...