You Deserve to be Okay

All of us have a mistake or some. We cannot deny that having mistakes is one of the things that sometimes cause us to feel regret all the time. It seems all we had been through is just a shitty thing since we assume having mistakes is the worst thing. Every time you try to run away from all mistakes you did but end up with the tears full of regrets. Why this happened? It’s because you never find a peace in your heart. Is it because of you who can’t forget those mistakes or it’s just you who can’t forgive yourself?

Every people in the world have and will do a mistake or even a lot. The more steps they take the more mistake they have. It seems living in the world is impossible to avoid a single mistake even you’ve already tried to be careful of what will you do. Even when you are trying to run away or run as faster as you can, still, you will comply and deal with kind of mistakes. is mistake a permanent knot of our life? And why we should have one or more mistakes? Well, the answer is we need that mistakes to change us not to be stressful but better than we were.

Tell yourself that having a mistake is not a crucial factor which will put your life to be in the worst place but because you need those mistakes to learn some aspects of life. Think about this; if you have no single mistake, how could you learn that there are a right and wrong; or how could you learn that it shouldn’t be done? 

If you want to find your peace of living, one of the things you need to deal with is that forgive your mistake and yourself will be forgiven. It will take some time for sure. But, it’s better to spend your time to learn rather than regret every mistake you did. Because it means you already wasting time.

Forgive yourself. This is one of the things that people always forget. We always try to forgive other’s mistake but rarely we do try to forgive our mistakes as we constantly tolerate others’. It seems to forgive others’ mistakes is easier to do rather than forgive our mistakes. Don’t you ever think that sometimes your mistake is not as bad as others?

Nobody is perfect and always remember this. Every human being in this world has mistakes. Besides, it’s not only you who always deal with any kind of mistakes. So, stop thinking that you are the worst creature in the world because of all the mistakes you ever did. It’s okay to have one or more mistakes, it’s okay to be wrong and it’s okay to be not perfect. You are just human. Within you, there is a human nature that sometimes cannot be controlled and it flows like a water on the river. When you cannot control your human nature doesn’t mean you are not a good person, but it shows you that you are a real human being who has flaws and need to learn. Of course, as a human being, we need some things to learn.

Note this! You are allowed to have a mistake or more cause there’s no certain rule to prevent yourself from having a mistake. Also, there’s nothing wrong with having a mistake. Take it as a learning process which may give you an opportunity to grow better. Forgive all of the mistakes you have cause you deserve to be okay. Once you do this, calm and peace will be there in your mind and heart.